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The Narrow Way

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Memory Verse“Enter by the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard, that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” - Matthew 7:13wheatdecorative wheat

About This Lesson

This lesson contrasts the narrow way (living in obedience to God and His laws) with the wide way (sin, disobedience, following your own desires), and the consequences of each.

Scriptures

Deuteronomy 8:1-6 Psalm 5:8-12
Proverbs 13:15
Isaiah 59:1-2
Matthew 4:1-4
Matthew 7:13
Matthew 7:13-21
Luke 13:24-30
1 Corinthians 4:1-21
Revelation 21:7, 10-11
Revelation 22:15-21

Words to Know

ELITE - the choice or best of a group or class.

LAMPOON - a harsh satire directed against an individual or institution.

The Lesson

Zig Ziglar told a story about John Johnson’s humble beginning. He was the great grandson of slaves and born in a shotgun tin-roofed house. He was a shy, bowlegged lad who wore homemade clothes. His classmates made fun of him. Yet he went from living in a tin-roofed house to living next door to Bob Hope and became one of the four hundred wealthiest men in America.

Becoming one of the wealthy elite may seem easy to many. But remember, Mr. Johnson wasn’t born with a silver spoon in his mouth. He didn’t inherit millions to make it possible that Bob Hope would be his next door neighbor, nor put him on the list of America’s wealthiest people. John Johnson’s road to success was difficult and hard. But Mr. Johnson had to play the cards in his life that were labeled opportunity.

Opportunity knocks for you and the sky’s the limit. Who your parents are and where you started are not the important factors. You can go from where you are to anywhere you want to go, not just geographically. But there is a price to pay for achievement. The road will be narrow and rocky and there will be hills and valleys. Reaching your desired destination will be hard.

John Johnson followed certain laws or principles that led to his financial success. God gave laws, which if you will apply them in your life, will make you a winner as well. But can you be famous, rich, successful and respected on your job, and yet not be a true winner? Do you have to be rich to be a winner? Is God more concerned with your personal life being happy and your spiritual life being successful than with you bank account? Since Mr. Johnson’s road to financial success wasn’t a bed of roses, will your road to spiritual success be narrow and hard as well? Is it worth it?

One day as the crowds gathered on the hillside, Jesus sat down and taught the people how to be winners. He told them there are two gates, two roads, two crowds, two destinations. The wide gate is spacious and accommodating to peer pressures. Forget about keeping the Sabbath and playing ball on Friday night, it says. Sex just this one time won’t matter. Foul language is okay if your parents don’t hear it. Cheating on exams or your time card at work is all right because everyone does it. The path through the wide gate is oh so attractive. But it is the highway to destruction and the way to missing out on God’s Kingdom.

The narrow gate is restrictive. To go through it requires discipline. The trip through the narrow gate does not permit you to do things Jesus doesn’t allow. It’s not the way to win a popularity contest with your peers. Just like John Johnson’s case, your classmates may taunt, jeer, tease, or lampoon you. So why should you want to chart your course through the narrow gate? Won’t you miss out on so many things? Yes you will. But what will you gain in comparison?

The road through the wide gate gives certain physical thrills, but they are temporary and not without consequences. Many of the consequences are immediate and some are not. Breaking the Sabbath to play in a ball game may ensure your team wins. What if you have premarital sex and don’t get AIDS or another sexually transmitted disease, and the girl doesn’t end up pregnant? Were there no consequences? How about your foul language if your parents didn’t hear, did God hear? Maybe you cheated on an exam and made an “A,” were you really better off? But what do these infractions of God’s law do to your relationship with God? What temporary and lasting impact do they have on you as a person?

“Listen now! The Lord isn’t too weak to save you. And he isn’t getting deaf! He can hear you when you call! But the trouble is that your sins have cut you off from God. Because of sin he has turned his face away from you and will not listen anymore” (Isaiah 59:1,2). How important is it for God to hear you when you pray? Do you want Him opening doors for you to be admitted into the right college, to getting a great job, or finding a wonderful marriage partner? These are things you may not be able to do for yourself. What if you’re really in trouble? If you’ve had an accident and your life is hanging in the balance, would you want God to hear your prayers?

Even though the wide gate your peers may want you to enter seems exciting and fun, it leads to pain today and death tomorrow. “The way of the transgressor is hard” (Proverbs 13:15). It leads to guilt, sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, fights, jail terms, misery, and eventually death. It doesn’t just lead to physical death, but eternal death. “But cowards who turn back from following me, and those who are unfaithful to me, and the corrupt, and murderers, and the immoral, and those conversing with demons, and idol worshipers and all liars – their doom is in the Lake that burns with fire and sulphur. This is the second Death” (Revelation 21:8 TLB). So there’s more at stake than your physical life.

But the good news is that the rewards are wonderful for those who enter the narrow gate and live the disciplined life. “But everyone who conquers will inherit all these blessings, and I will be his God and he will be my son . . . I watched that wondrous city, the holy Jerusalem, descending out of the skies from God. It was filled with the glory of God. And flashed and glowed like a precious gem, crystal clear like jasper” (Revelation 21:7, 10-11 TLB).

John Johnson was dealt a set of cards labeled opportunity. He lived the disciplined life and followed the law which led to wealth and the opportunity to be Bob Hope’s neighbor. You are also being dealt a set of cards labeled opportunity. Even the sky is no limit for you. But you must follow God’s law and the principles Jesus Christ laid out for you to be a winner. The path is narrow, but the rewards are worth it!

Student Prayer

Thank you, God, for the awesome plan you have for me. It far surpasses the temporary pleasures of sin. Help me each day to stay focused on the reward you have for me if I will enter the narrow gate and live the disciplined life. Give me your help in following you even when my peers tempt me not to.
In Jesus’ name I pray.
Amen.

Daily Devotions

Sunday: Luke 13:24-30

Monday: Matthew 7:13-21

Tuesday: Revelation 22:15-21

Wednesday: Matthew 4:1-4

Thursday: Deuteronomy 8:1-6

Friday: Psalm 5:8-12

Saturday: 1 Corinthians 4:1-21

Objectives

At the end of this lesson, students will be able to:

1. Explain the dangers of following their peers through the wide gate.

2. Make clear that the disapproval of peers is a small price to pay for being a winner.

3. Discuss the benefits of living a disciplined life and staying on the path through the narrow gate.

4. Recite their memory verse.

Topics & Themes

Blessings/Cursings
Consequences of Sin
God’s Law
Holy Conduct
Narrow Gate
Obedience
Persecution
Reward
The Way

Materials Needed

Bible, YEA students’ and teacher’s books, attendance and memory verse charts, songbook, CD or cassette tape, music player, paper, newsprint pad or chalk board, marker, timer, NIV Bible

How to Teach This Lesson

Open the class with prayer. Begin with the “Activity” in the students’ book. Write “Simple Mathematics” at the top of the board followed by “Temptation + Yielding = a fool.” Number one to seven underneath this caption so students’ answers can be added beside each one. Ask the students to open their books to the “Activity” for today’s lesson and to turn to Proverbs 1:20. Ask a student to read verses 20-25. Ask: Who would like to give us what you wrote in your book for the number one consequence for yielding to temptation? (By number one write: “God will laugh at their disaster.”) Is there anyone here who would like for their friends to laugh at their disasters? Then how do you think you would feel if the all-wise, all-loving God who created you started laughing at your disaster?

What was the second consequence you found for yielding to temptation? (By number 2 write: “God will mock when calamity overtakes you.”) Will you feel God has now added insults to injury? Why or why not? Ask a student to read Proverbs 1:26-27 aloud. How would you describe the progression of the consequences for yielding to temptation? (Add to number 2: a storm, whirlwind overwhelms you.)

What was the third consequence you found for yielding to temptation? (By number 3 write: “God won’t answer their prayers.”) How do you think you would feel if you were alone, in terrible pain, no hope of talking with anyone, and God refused to hear your prayers?

What was the fourth consequence you found for yielding to temptation? (Write: “They couldn’t even find God.”) Ask a student to read Isaiah 55:6. What does this say to you? How would you feel if you’re scared within an inch of your life and you can’t find God to help you?

What was the fifth consequence you found for yielding to temptation? (Write: “Filled with their schemes.”) How do you see that in real life?

What was the sixth consequence you found for yielding to temptation? (Write: “Their ways will kill them.”)

What was the seventh consequence you found for yielding to temptation? (Write: “Complacency of fools will destroy them.”) Are you predestined to be this way because of your family, disability, or economic status? Why or why not? Say: Here are the current statistics for the number of the CEOs of the Fortune 500 companies are from lower middle-class or poor families, 2) how many of the millionaires in America are first-generation millionaires, and 3) how many of the three hundred world-class leaders were raised in poverty, had been abused as children, or had some serious physical disability. How does this fit with the idea that most successful people are born with silver spoons in their mouths? What character traits did you see in John Johnson that showed his wisdom? If John Johnson could attain success, what excuses do you think God will accept for not following The Narrow Way of wisdom to success?

Write “God’s Word + Careful Obedience = Wisdom.” As the students read them from their activity, list the seven things found in Proverbs 4:5-15 that wisdom will do for them. These should include: 1. Protection, 2. Exalt you, 3. Honor you, 4. Garland of grace on your head, 5. Present you with a crown of splendor, 6. Long life, 7. Make your path straight and unhampered.

Contrast the way of a fool with wisdom. Ask: What are the benefits of perhaps suffering teasing, jeering, and lampooning for living your religious beliefs? Say: Do you remember the principle we discussed in the second lesson in this book? How do you see the principle of deferred gratification playing a role in gaining an eternal reward through The Narrow Way?

Teacher-Directed Activity

Divide the students into three groups and give each group one of the “situations” you wrote out before class. Explain that each group has a painful situation teenagers are likely to encounter on their paper with three possible ways they may handle the problem. They will have five minutes to discuss the situation and come up with Christian ways to cope with the pain. Set your timer. When the timer rings, bring the students back together and debrief.

Song

“Seek Ye First” is on page 67 of The Group Songbook.

Closing Prayer

Have the students form a circle and join hands. Ask for a volunteer to lead in prayer asking God to help them to do the things that will give them wisdom.

Printable Pages

Activity Page — from the original printed program
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