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The Golden Rule

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Memory Verse“So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.” - Matthew 7:12 (NIV) wheatdecorative wheat

About This Lesson

This lesson illustrates how the Golden Rule is the gold standard of conduct for Christians.

Scriptures

Matthew 7:12
Matthew 10:37-42
Matthew 25:31-40
Luke 6:27-45
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
Ephesians 4:17-32
Colossians 3:12-17
James 1:19-27
2 Peter 1:3-7

Words to Know

IGNEOUS - produced under conditions involving intense heat, as rocks crystallized from molten magma or of volcanic origin.

CONDUCTOR - serves as a channel or medium.

The Lesson

In 1980 gold sold for $850 an ounce. That’s a lot of money for a very small amount of a yellow lustrous metal. But it’s a rare metal that is pleasing and workable. It does not tarnish or corrode. It’s also a good conductor of electricity. Like many other elements, gold is widespread in small amounts in all igneous rocks.

Fortune seekers rushed to Sutter’s Mill, California in 1848 to discover gold. According to the Encyclopaedia Britannica, “Frontier camps and towns, ruled by grass-roots democracy, grew rapidly, and died as quickly once the gold supply was depleted.”

Down through history people have been fascinated with this precious metal – even Israel of old. While Moses was up on Mount Sinai receiving the law, the Israelites asked for a god they could see. So Aaron had them take off their gold earrings for him to mold their jewelry into a golden idol shaped like a calf.

The years between 70 BC and 18 AD were called the Golden Age because of literary achievements during those years. The Gold Coast is a section of the Guinea Coast of Africa. A gold cup is given to the winner of a motorboat competition in the United States. There’s the Golden Gate Bridge in California. And there’s the Golden Gloves amateur boxing competition. Bracelets, necklaces, rings, watches and other fine jewelry are made of gold. Even the cups and furniture in Solomon’s Temple were made of gold. This expensive metal plays an important part in our culture and society.

“All the Gold’s in California” was a popular song a few years back. But that’s really not true because there is gold in the code of conduct – The Golden Rule. Just as gold excels all other metals, this rule of conduct exceeds all other codes of conduct. What does it say? “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 7:12 TLB). How can this greatest code of conduct make a difference in your life and the lives of others? Let our Savior tell you.

Crowds of people came from Jerusalem, and from all over Judea as far north as the seacoast of Tyre and Sidon. Jesus told them, “Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you. Pray for the happiness of those who curse you; implore God’s blessing on those who hurt you.

“If someone slaps you on one cheek, let him slap the other too! If someone demands your coat, give him your shirt besides. Give what you have to anyone who asks you for it; and when things are taken away from you, don’t worry about getting them back. Treat others as you want them to treat you.

“Do you think you deserve credit for merely loving those who love you? Even the godless do that! And if you do good only to those who do you good – is that so wonderful? Even sinners do that much! And if you lend money only to those who can repay you, what good is that? Even the most wicked will lend to their own kind for full return!” (Luke 6:27-34 TLB).

Does this mean that you are to pray for people who curse you and ask God to bless them? Are you required to lend to people who will never pay you back? What would the world be like if all of us did this? Can you imagine a world where everyone spoke well of each other? Fighting would stop. Grudges would drop by the wayside. There would be forgiveness and broken relationships would be mended. Love would blossom everywhere.

We tend to think of God as we are. Jesus says you should try to show as much compassion as His Father does. He’s gracious, loving and forgiving. He’s not small minded and selfish. He sees the big picture and knows the results of forgiveness. He didn’t give us a cheap code of conduct, it’s made of pure gold excelling all others. The Christian walk requires you to be a good conductor of love as gold is a good conductor of electricity. A Christian must be pleasing and workable and not tarnished or corroded by ill treatment or bad attitudes of others. A Christian who will do this is as rare as gold. The person who will follow this code of conduct will be very precious in God’s sight! These are Christ like actions, for He is kind to the unthankful and to those who are truly wicked.

What’s in it for you if you take the heat, pray God’s blessings upon your enemies, turn the other cheek, and don’t expect friends or enemies to repay you for what you do for them? Luke 6:47 promises, “All those who come and listen and obey me are like a man who builds a house on a strong foundation laid upon the underlying rock. When the floodwaters rise and break against the house, it stands firm, for it is strongly built” (TLB). Does that sound like the Christian who believes and obeys God will have protection when things get rough? What kinds of floodwaters could rise and break in your world?

Our world is becoming more unsafe daily. Gun violence, cybersecurity threats, carjackings and theft, and other violent crimes are on the rise. Life hasn’t been very sure and comfortable many areas in the U.S. and around the world. In times like this don’t you want to find favor in God’s eyes? Don’t you want your house to stand firm?

God is looking for 24-karat gold character. He promises if you will give, “you will get! Your gift will return to you in full and overflowing measure, pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, and running over. Whatever measure you use to give – large or small – will be used to mea- sure what is given back to you” (Luke 6:38 TLB). WOW! What a promise to never forget! The Golden Rule truly excels all other codes of conduct. If you follow The Golden Rule, you’ll be worth more than $850 an ounce in God’s sight bringing a lustrous precious metal to those around you. Will it be easy? Probably not. But is it worth it to follow this code of conduct? Absolutely!

Student Prayer

Almighty God,
Thank you for giving us The Golden Rule which is a code of conduct that excels all others. It’s awesome what you have in store for those who are willing to turn the other cheek and give to their enemies without expecting to be repaid. Keep my mind firmly focused on you and your promised reward.
It’s in Jesus’ name I pray.
Amen.

Daily Devotions

Sunday: 1 Corinthians 13:1-13

Monday: 2 Peter 1:3-7

Tuesday: Ephesians 4:17-32

Wednesday: Colossians 3:12-17

Thursday: James 1:19-27

Friday: Matthew 10:37-42

Saturday: Matthew 25:31-40

Objectives

At the end of this lesson, students will be able to:

1. Make clear that the blessings they receive will be in direct proportion to what they give.

2. Explain that The Golden Rule is God’s code of conduct that excels all others.

3. Discuss why they should not expect to be repaid for what they lend or give to others.

Topics & Themes

Gold
Golden Calf
Golden Rule
Holy Conduct
Jesus, His Ministry
Relationship with God
Relationships
Sermon on the Mount

Materials Needed

Bible, YEA students’ and teacher’s books, attendance and memory verse charts, video or brochures of hands on service ideas, songbook, CD or cassette tape and music player, poster paper, markers

How to Teach This Lesson

After opening the class with prayer, begin at one end of the semicircle having the kids count off 1 - 2 - 3, and repeat it until every student has said a number. Have all of the ones form a group, the twos form a group, and the threes form yet another group. Let each group draw one of the scriptures you wrote on separate pieces of paper. Give each group a piece of poster board and markers. Explain that each group is to plan and design something like an advertisement portraying the message found in the scripture they drew. They can use words and drawings. Give them a few minutes to brainstorm and do their poster. When time is up, ask them to sit back in the semicircle. Have each group display and explain the message in their poster.

Debrief - Ask: Do you ever feel like the rich people these scriptures talk about? Why or why not? Describe what makes the message in your poster relevant today? What is the difference between the world’s riches and God’s riches?

Your debtors - Would you find it difficult to pray for God to bless someone who curses you or does ill to you? Why or why not? How could God turn your prayers into a blessing for you? Do you feel good when you make a loan to a needy person? What if he doesn’t pay you back? What are your options if you lend him $500 and he never pays you back? Ask a student to read Luke 6:34 aloud. What could be the benefits if you pray about it and leave it in God’s hands? Ask a student to read Luke 6:46 aloud. What hope does that scripture give you for listening to God and obeying Him?

Tell the Story - In John Grisham’s book, The Street Lawyer, Michael Brock, a young successful attorney, was thrown in a jail cell with a bunch of thugs. He was scared and they knew it. They could have beaten him into a bloody pulp. Thugs, like these, prey on clean-cut, first time offenders. They began to harass him. His jacket and cross-trainer Nikes were expensive and the thugs knew it. First they wanted his jacket and then his shoes. What would you have done had you been Michael? Why? What scripture would you have called to mind at a time like this? (Luke 6:27; Proverbs 15:1). Ask a student to read these scriptures aloud.

Share stories - Get the students to share their stories of personal insults, threats, harm or mistreatment by others. After each story, encourage the other students to suggest how The Golden Rule can be applied. If anyone has applied The Golden Rule in a similar situation, get them to share their results. Ask: How do you see living The Golden Rule will turn enemies into more friends? If you live The Golden Rule and love your enemies, what does God promise you? Have one of the students read Luke 6:35-38 aloud.

Teacher-Directed Activity

Before class, contact your local library or places such as the United Way to get a video and/or brochures to inform the class of hands- on service ideas to practice The Golden Rule. After viewing these, have a discussion and let the class select a project to volunteer their services. The Association for Retarded Citizens, the Special Olympics, etc. have on-going projects for the students to serve and enjoy. They often need help getting out mailings or volunteering in other ways.

Song

“Love Round” is on page 15 of The Group Songbook.

Closing Prayer

Have the class form a circle and hold hands. Invite one of the students to lead in prayer asking for enough faith to apply The Golden Rule as Jesus did.

Printable Pages

Activity Page — from the original printed program
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