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Peer Admiration

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Memory Verse“Nothing is covered up that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. Whatever you have said in the dark shall be heard in the light, and what you have whispered in private rooms shall be proclaimed upon the housetops.” - Luke 12:2-3 (RSV) wheatdecorative wheat

About This Lesson

This lesson teaches that while we are all subject to peer pressure, our goal must be to first please God, seeking His approval most of all.

Scriptures

Psalm 36:1-12
Matthew 6:1-13
Matthew 6:16-21
Matthew 18:1-5
Luke 12:1-9
Luke 12:2-3
Luke 18:9-14
Romans 12:1-8
Philippians 2:1-5
1 Peter 5:5-11

Words to Know

HYPOCRITE - a stage actor or one who plays a part; one pretending to be something or someone he is not.

HUMILITY - having a modest opinion of one’s own importance or rank; meekness.

PRETENTIOUS - making an exaggerated outward show.

The Lesson

Eric was a Thespian and really enjoyed acting. He had just tried out for state competition and anxiously awaited the results. His secret dream was to go to Austin and enter the Texas Interscholastic League competition. Getting the part to play Uncle Stanley in George Washington Slept Here should ensure he would be going to Austin.

Finally, the drama teacher came out and made the announcement that Eric would indeed play Uncle Stanley. Staying after school each afternoon was well worth it because all of those people would be there watching him perform. Learning the lines for Uncle Stanley came easy for Eric. He learned to get himself in character, to think like Uncle Stanley, to talk like Uncle Stanley, and to act like Uncle Stanley. Play acting was not only fun, it was hot stuff for Eric.

The curtains went up and Eric proudly played the part of Uncle Stanley. He acted the part well and was proud of his performance. The applause was deafening as the people came to their feet almost in unison. The thrill of a lifetime came with that standing “O.” He knew George Washington Slept Here had it in the bag. Man, that was big stuff! But when the play was over, the awards were passed out and the applause was gone, the costume and all of the dramatic trappings were gone as well. Eric was just Eric again.

Play acting isn’t just something students do in school plays or actors and actresses do before the cameras in Hollywood. We all perform from time to time. We thrive when people applaud or compliment us. But how long does the applause last? How much lasting good does it really do us?

The word “Hypocrite” means stage actor or one who plays a part. In Jesus’ day performers wore masks to conceal their true identity while playing their part. Jesus challenges us to not live our lives for the praise of our peers, but to be genuine. Acting religious doesn’t gain you any brownie points with God. The message comes through loud and clear in Jesus’ teachings that our good deeds, religious life and worship of Him should be genuine and not just putting on a show. God looks on the intent of the heart.

He says if you do your good deeds for the public to admire you, you will lose the reward from your Father in heaven. “When you give a gift to a beggar, don’t shout about it as the hypocrites do – blowing trumpets in the synagogues and streets to call attention to their act of charity! I tell you in all earnestness, they have received all the reward they will ever get. But when you do a kindness to someone, do it secretly – don’t tell your left hand what your right hand is doing. And your Father who knows all secrets will reward you” (Matthew 6:2-4 TLB).

What does Jesus have to say about other religious acts such as prayer? He again warns us not to be like the hypocrites who pray long public prayers so that everyone can see them praying and hear their beautifully worded prayers. Prayer is a very private thing between you and God. It’s a time when you can talk over all of your secrets with Him and you can trust Him not to tell a soul.

His instructions are to go in your room and shut your door. He wants you to be yourself and not be pretentious. Just as Eric was Eric again after the costume came off, God wants no acting or pretense. He doesn’t even want you to repeat the same prayer over and over again. He wants you to say what’s in your heart and on your mind. After all, He already knows your thoughts, so you might just as well tell Him.

Jesus says, here is a model for you to follow. “Our Father in heaven, we honor your holy name. We ask that your kingdom will come now. May your will be done here on earth, just as it is in heaven. Give us our food again today, as usual, and forgive us our sins, just as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us. Don’t bring us into temptation, but deliver us from the Evil One. Amen” (Matthew 6:9-13 TLB).

One of the greatest temptations we all have is to want respect, applause, admiration and approval of our peers. Jesus tells us that if we live our lives and do our deeds as a show for them, then that is the only reward we will have. It will last just about as long as Eric’s standing ovation and it’s all over. But when you live your life to please Jesus and Jesus alone, He’ll ensure you’ll have a much greater reward that will last throughout all eternity.

Student Prayer

Gracious Father,
You know my heart so there is no need for me to pretend I am something that I am not. Help me to do my good works to please you and not for the praise or admiration of my peers. Please forgive me of the many times I have done this.

I pray all of this in Jesus’ holy and righteous name.
Amen.

Daily Devotions

Sunday: Matthew 6:16-21

Monday: Luke 18:9-14

Tuesday: Romans 12:1-8

Wednesday: Philippians 2:1-5

Thursday: 1 Peter 5:5-11

Friday: Matthew 18:1-5

Saturday: Psalm 36:1-12

Objectives

At the end of this lesson, students will be able to:

1. Explain that hypocrite means play acting or pretending to be something you are not.

2. Discuss how fleeting peer admiration is and what it is worth.

3. Discuss how God looks on the heart and doesn’t want any pretense.

4. Demonstrate how God expects us to pray. 


Topics & Themes

Holy Conduct
Humility
Hypocrite
Jesus, His Ministry
Obedience
Prayer
Prayer, The Lord’s
Relationships
Reward

Materials Needed

Bible, YEA students’ and teacher’s books, black and white construction paper, popsicle sticks, songbooks, CD or cassette tape, music player, glue or tape

How to Teach This Lesson

Open the class with prayer. Have the students form pairs. Give every student a black and a white mask. Explain that the white mask represents a Christian and the black mask represents a hypocrite. You want them to hold the appropriate mask in front of their faces for the character they will be portraying as they discuss each subject with their partner. They are to change the mask back and forth as they change characters. Start by saying, “You are a Christian. Talk with each other about the Sabbath.” Now say, “You are a hypocrite. Talk with each other about the Sabbath.” Then give them such subjects as morality, drugs, cheating on exams to discuss with their partner as Christians and as hypocrites.

Debrief - Ask: How did you feel about being a Christian as you discussed these subjects with your peers? What feelings did you have when you changed your mask and character to being a hypocrite? How are these masks similar to the way some Christians live their lives? How does it trouble you when you see hypocrisy? Why do you think we are one way when we’re out with our peers and another way at church or in Sabbath School? What does Jesus think about this?

Praise of peers - Ask : How many of you have ever performed in a play? What kind of response did you get from the audience? How did you feel about the applause and accolades? How did you feel about pretending that you were someone else. The applause Eric experienced at competition was only temporary. How would you compare his experience with your play acting experience? Why do you think it was so important to receive that standing “O.” How does that applause compare with receiving the approval from God for doing good deeds or obeying Him?

Deeds done in secret - Why do you think Jesus wants us to do our kind deeds secretly? Since Jesus doesn’t want us to give to be seen of men, then what motives should prompt us to give? (Compassion for the person we are giving to and to honor and obey God.)

Prayer - Why did Jesus tell us to go to a private place to pray? How does it benefit you to pray if you take that opportunity to impress people? How much more honest will you be in your prayers when they are done in private? What kinds of things would you not want to pray about in public? Is it wrong to have public prayers? (No.) What public prayers in the Bible can you think of? (Solomon’s prayer at the dedication of the Temple, Elijah’s prayer on Mount Carmel before the priests of Baal, Jesus blessed the bread and wine at the Passover service with His disciples, etc.)

Peer Admiration - How long will the approval of your peers last? What happens when it’s gone? How long will God’s approval last? Why is having God’s approval so much more important than having the admiration of a mere human being?

Teacher-Directed Activity

The activity is the first portion in “How to Teach This Lesson.”

Song

“Humble Thyself in the Sight of the Lord” is on page 38 of The Group Songbook.

Closing Prayer

Have the students form a circle and join hands. Lead them in prayer thanking God that He has provided a way that they can be completely honest with Him and no one will ever know what they have said.

Printable Pages

Activity Page — from the original printed program
Activity Page
Pattern Page — from the original printed program
Pattern Page
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